STOP Surviving your PAST and Start Building Your FUTURE

You were never too much.

You were just the first to see the truth.
You’ve carried the guilt.

You’ve swallowed your voice.

You’ve twisted yourself into knots trying to earn love that should’ve been yours for free.

It ends here.

You’re not broken — you’re breaking cycles.

If any of this hits you right in the gut... you’re home.

  • You second-guess yourself after setting even the smallest boundary.

  • You feel like you’re drowning in guilt for wanting peace.

  • You’ve spent years walking on eggshells — and calling it "love."

  • You wonder if maybe you are the problem, because they made you believe you were.

  • You’re terrified of losing your family — but even more terrified of losing yourself.

  • You’re exhausted from being the “strong one” who holds all the broken pieces.

If you whispered "that’s me" even once —you’re exactly who I built this for.

Now imagine this instead . . .

  • Setting boundaries without drowning in guilt.

  • Trusting your gut without needing permission.

  • Building a life rooted in peace — not approval.

  • Feeling safe in your own damn skin, maybe for the first time ever.

  • Creating a legacy of freedom your kids (and future generations) can feel in their bones.

1:1 Mentorship

Personalized, potent, and private—this is where your healing stops being hypothetical.

"No More Nice Girl"

Group Coaching

From over-giving to unapologetic—this is where you reclaim your voice, your worth, and your peace.

Speaking Engagements

Unfiltered truth, lived experience, and a mic drop message every cycle breaker needs to hear..

I burned the bridge to my old life.

Best decision EVER.

I’m Becky — Cycle Breaker, Truth-Teller, and Life Experience Expert.

I don’t just coach you to survive your past.

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I coach you to obliterate it and build a life they don't get to touch.

I'm not your therapist.

I'm not your life coach with a laminated checklist.

I’m the one who’s been through the fire

— and came out swinging.

Daughter of a narcissist. Survivor of a mother’s silence. Veteran of toxic family wars.

I’m a married mom of four, a public education advocate, a rare disease mom, and a woman who knows what it feels like to lose too much time to people who never deserved it.

I don't hand out hope wrapped in pretty little bows.

I hand you the freaking matches to light up the lies you've been fed —

and the blueprint to rebuild from scratch.

Who you were, where you came from, and what you have experienced doesn't determine your story, YOU do.